Monday, 1 September 2014

One year down the line

I have woken up to the fact that it is almost one year since I arrived in Nimule.  Time has flown by.  Much has changed in that time, very much for the better.

When I arrived I was appalled by what I found both in the home and in the school.  I had been asked by Pastor Samuel, the chair of the American charity Fulaa which founded both home and school, to report on any concerns.  I did so.  This caused great antagonism here.  Coupled with that, some of the staff very strongly disapproved of Catholics and made their views felt strongly and very rudely.  Their treatment of the children was very lacking in love and care.  However, things have gradually changed at the home.  Yes, things are very basic in material terms, but there has been a big shift in attitude so that the children really feel loved and cared for now.  At the last government inspection in April we were one of very few children’s homes to pass.  Our matron was recently told that our home was judged the best in the whole of Eastern Equatoria.  By contrast, the other local orphanage is being forced to close because of their appalling neglect of the children.  They tried to stop the inspectors from entering but had to be forced (literally, by armed soldiers) to admit them. 

I have seen the proof of how good the home now is through watching the reception of several new children recently.  All four children settled into life here quickly and happily, immediately making new friends and becoming part of the family.  This is in spite of the terrible events that brought them here.  The first three are a brother and two sisters whose parents were murdered in the fighting further north in Bor.  The last arrival is a nine year old boy whose mother brought him south from Sudan and then abandoned him.  He had been surviving as a street child in Torit (the state capital) by polishing shoes.  All happily playing, laughing and trying to catch up on their missed education.

What is euphemistically called ‘the situation’ broke in mid-December, causing us all to worry that we might need to escape across the border to Uganda.  Thankfully, so far our fears have turned out to be misplaced.  Most of Equatoria (we are in Eastern Equatoria State) has been peaceful throughout.  The only exception has been Juba, which is the capital both of the country and of Central Equatoria State.

I spent six weeks in Kampala from May to June while my new passport was issued.  I had really resented the interruption to my work in Nimule but in fact there were benefits.  I met and stayed with a lovely lay religious community called the Grail where I was able to recharge my batteries, physically and spiritually.  The head of the community is a writer of adult and child fiction.  Her books aim to give a message of social and religious reform.  She gave me a present of two of her children’s books to take back.  The children here love them.  Books are very scarce in South Sudan, so there is little motivation to read.  These books are particularly good because they are from a similar culture which the children can easily identify with.  I have a standing invitation to go back to stay with them again.

The children welcomed me back very emotionally and lovingly when I finally returned.  I found to my surprise that the staff at the home had completely changed their attitude to me in my absence so that they were also very welcoming.  Their very prejudiced attitude towards Catholics has changed too so that I no longer suffer from their adversarial religious statements.  In fact I am regularly invited to read and preach at morning devotions and run a Bible study session every Saturday with the full support of staff.

I continued to have problems at the school but now had Pastor Abdullah (the director of the home and also director of education at the school) on my side.  That was a great relief.  The school has been a tougher nut than the home, but even there, a breakthrough has finally happened.  We had staff training for the teachers at the end of term from a very prestigious school in Kampala.  This was organised by Pastor Abdullah, who has a child at that school.  It was a huge success.  At first the teachers were very resentful, but they were completely won over by day two. 

We are now looking forward to the start of term in mid-September with a whole new approach.  No caning, teachers to set an example of arriving early, teachers in each class all day, a homework policy, a whole school approach to reading using a very lively phonics method (Jolly Phonics), a method of teaching handwriting, the abolition of the staff room….  It will be a very different school if all goes well.  The big draw for the teachers is the promise that if we can really turn the school around, word will spread and the school will become a centre of learning locally.  They have been promised that they will be head-hunted by other schools!  For me, the importance of this change is that it will show other local schools an example so that higher standards of education will gradually spread everywhere.

The teachers came away positive and ready to put their new training, both academic and disciplinary, into place.  There are difficulties to be overcome, such as the lack of much needed resources, such as desks and photocopier, but we are finally getting there..

Throughout everything I have had the support of American missionaries who are based on the other side of town.  I visit them regularly.  They and the local Catholic parish priest have been a steadying influence when I have been having particularly difficult times.  They have been able to raise funds for extra fruit and vegetables for the home and pass on their children's outgrown clothes too.

The icing on the cake for me on a personal level is that I have been invited to be godmother to a baby at the local Catholic Church.  I really look forward to being a part of the community outside the home and school as a result. 

I am planning a celebration for the children on the anniversary of my arrival here.  My missionary friends have promised to make a large cake for the occasion, which will be a major treat for the children.  I am trying to keep this a secret from them.

I am so glad I came to Nimule.  I am hoping that my children will visit at some stage in the coming year.


Best wishes to you all, 

Rebecca

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